It’s such an odd experience to go for a walk and find myself, again and again, a focus of various restaurant patrons on the streets of New York. I realize they’ve been starved of social interactions. And, people watching has taken on a new importance. Pedestrians have become the dinner entertainment for the open tables’ clientele. So if I walk uptown or downtown on the avenues, I become a subject for diners’ eyes. Conversely, I look to see how to walk around so I’m not too close while they’re eating their meals mask free.
It may be that I provide much needed amusement with my firecracker ponytail, my loose tee-shirts and touristy fanny pack. I don’t care. I’m at an age where I believe other people’s opinion of me is none of my business. It gives me more head space to enjoy my daily walks.
The character of the city has taken on its own pandemic configuration. For instance, I was so looking forward to this past Labor Day Weekend. In previous years, the city empties out and we can roam freely, the streets void of residents. Not so last weekend. If anything, it felt more like neighbors had prematurely returned from second homes or vacation dwellings.
I love the East River Promenade. Yet, I’m not so fond of it during the pandemic. This summer the river-facing benches are like chaise lounges at resorts, people have to get there early and stake out their territory. Should I identify a rare empty bench, I would have to race walk to claim it as mine. And, forget it when said bench is shaded.
When I’m out with Lucy I get the distinct impression that she is confused that her park is no longer all hers. We walk to areas she loves to sniff only to come across sun worshippers or picnickers who are located in the exact spot she wants to examine. So we move on trying to forge a path around these interlopers.
The city is, in turns, emptier, and more crowded. The indoor places are a quarter full at most, while outdoor spaces seem to be at capacity. This weekend brought even more people outdoors with cooler temperatures and Labor Day behind us. I’m looking forward to the future when travel is a safer option. My plan is to stay in the city as it empties out. Lucy and I will sit on a readily available bench. And, if they want, the runners by the river can enjoy Lucy’s mellow aura and whatever quirky yet casual get-up I’ll be sporting.
- Set an alarm on your daily calendar to acknowledge yourself for small accomplishments.
- These times are so difficult. Write down or share with others something for which you are proud.
- Set a timer for complaints. This way you can acknowledge all the things that you find annoying, but it’s framed within limits.
- One-minute stretch brakes help come back to yourself, physically and emotionally.
- People watch when you’re outdoors. You never know who you might find amusing.